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Monday, August 1st, 2011

There is one emotion that I find stops a person from succeeding at whatever it is s/he is trying to do. It’s fear. It’s that tiny niggling voice that presents all the risks and what will happen if you don’t succeed. It’s that saboteur that’s in place to keep you safe, but ultimately keeps you [...]
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Friday, July 9th, 2010

Something I’ve watched with some fascination is how technology becomes a fetish for so many people. What I mean by fetish, in this case, is an object of desire, but also using that object as a point of identity that helps the person establish a sense of self because s/he has that fetish. I see [...]
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Tuesday, September 9th, 2008

The Competition Blues When I first started my coaching business, and ran into other coaches who did similar coaching and were doing really well in their business, one emotion or instinct I felt was a desire to compete. In some ways I felt a bit a threatened, because here were these people who were getting [...]
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Thursday, January 31st, 2008

If life coaching is about helping a person recognize that s/he has resources available to hir that weren’t recognized before, I also think that sometimes it’s about recognizing what you are really attached to, resources as it were that others have shown you that aren’t always as useful because they represent the “shoulds”…what other people [...]
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