The Competition Blues
When I first started my coaching business, and ran into other coaches who did similar coaching and were doing really well in their business, one emotion or instinct I felt was a desire to compete. In some ways I felt a bit a threatened, because here were these people who were getting lots of clients and I was going to have to compete against them. It wasn’t until I went to a networking event at a local park and heard, “At this networking group, I learned I didn’t have to think about my relationship with similar businesses as competition because there’s enough work to go around,” that I began to think of competition in a different way. I realized focusing on who I had to compete against was taking away my energy and focus on who it should really be focused on: my clients.
As a published writer, I have sometimes felt competitive about reaching my audience and writing a book on a particular subject before someone else does. Just as with the networking situation, I realized one day that when I focused more on who I was trying to race against in writing a book, I wasn’t writing my book for my audience anymore, or myself. I was writing it to compete against someone else.
As I had these realizations about competition, I began to question what role competition should play in my business and in my writing. I know, realistically, that I do have competition. There’s no doubt that when I focus on a niche market and someone else also focuses on that market, there is some degree of competition. But how much of that feeling of competition is healthy?
Hello Rock Artist,
This is an excellent example of competition gone bad. I'm sorry it happened to you. I will actually be doing my next radio show on this topic...next week...and I invite you to call in if you get a chance.
I think you were right to do what you did...Your friend shouldn't try and monopolize business if she also wants you to contribute your art.
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